hearing things

sometimes you hear things about people you don't want to hear.  You play it off and don't seem to care initially but then as time goes on you start to feel annoyed and possibly angry when you don't even have the right to! What is this all about! Why do I have to feel annoyed with someone for something they did when I wasn't part of their life, they weren't part of mine.  I just need to let it go and act like I never knew until they are comfortable telling me if they feel they even should tell me.  Sheesh! drama drama drama!